Networking is about Giving

Now a days, every second person is talking about available networking in LinkedIn and Social media, which is not helping them in searching job. Even then a person has more than 1000+ friends in their social circle.

But whenever they are posting something about themselves, they got a lot of responses. Hundreds of likes, and from them also, whose names hey haven’t heard earlier.

Experienced enough? Yes, this is correct, when we are sharing something, very good stuff, which is beneficial for society or some thing touching personal, then people response. Also when publishing something, which is against society or any celebrity, even then people react, because nobody is listening them, they got a platform to write anything, whatever they have in their mind.

Also when publishing something, which is against society or any celebrity, even then people react, because nobody is listening them, they got a platform to write anything, whatever they have in their mind.

Why? the million dollar question? Because we are human being, we are emotional social animal. When we read somebody achieved something, we become happy, because internally somewhere, we want to be happy and we are looking for chance to be happy, but always feeling that today my achievement is underestimated.

Nobody understand that i have put my best foot forward today, i have done my best, but this gone unrecognized.

Somewhere, this is going on and at the same time, see your posting, we want to appreciate ourselves, thru liking your post, and if want to go one more step forward, then comment on it by saying ‘good job” done to you.

There are some people in our community, they really want to appreciate people, because they already understand that networking is for giving not expecting something. from others

Why very limited people response, when we are asking help for job search? Because either they faced the same problem earlier, or they are real people, who really want to help you.

In both situation, they know that networking is just to give, extend the support, if you can not help, ask somebody to help others.

When we are expecting something from anyone, and this doesn’t happen according to expectation, we started cursing the day, the fate, and more so, the person, whom face we have seen in today morning.

But we forget that moment, person never suppose to help, or person never promised, this, means we become victim of our own web of hopes. Hoping against hope. Isn’t it.

Well, if we started helping someone, whom we do not know, we personally feel good. If you never felt this kick, try this, you will feel good.

The only condition here is, don’t expect help in return. Again expectation will spoil happiness.

If everybody follow this, i am sure, the day will come when, everyone will star helping each other.

Thanks for reading.

Bye for now.

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